“I am not a role
model. I’m not paid to be a role
model. I am paid to wreak havoc on the
basketball court. Parents should be role models. Just because I dunk a basketball, doesn’t
mean I should raise your kids” ~ Charles Barkley
A monster is prowling the great Pacific Northwest. A creature that has terrified the populace; making
women faint, grown men cry and forcing parents to lock their children
indoors. Have they found Sasquatch? Is it a crazed serial killing mountain man
lurking in the dark forests preying on unsuspecting campers? Is it a rogue grizzly bear or a rabid wolf tearing
apart hikers? No it’s none of
those. It’s much worse. It’s a football player; Seattle Seahawks’
cornerback Richard Sherman.
Richard Sherman has become a villain so heinous as to
almost defy description. And I stress
almost, because following a 20 second rant with Fox sideline reporter
Erin Andrews immediately after last Sunday’s playoff game with the San
Francisco 49ers Sherman has been widely described.
He’s been described as a punk, a thug, an idiot, a jerk, a d-bag, and of
course, being a black man, every single racial slur in the Ku Klux Klan
dictionary of slurs and probably some that hadn't yet been made up. It’s become a story that’s managed to
overshadow everything in the news. You
know, small things like a Western states’ drought of Biblical proportions;
progress on a nuclear deal with Iran; the bottlenose dolphin slaughter in Japan
and concerns about terrorism at the Olympics.
The only thing that managed to kick l’affaire Sherman to the curb
(albeit briefly) was Justin Bieber's arrest in Miami for drag racing (which pinpoints
the deep, dark place where the collective heads of Americans are at).
For those who've been vacationing on Mars or stupidly
focusing on the Iran deal here’s what happened.
At the end of the NFC Championship game, Sherman tipped a potential game
winning pass meant for 49ers’ receiver Michael Crabtree into the grateful hands of teammate
Malcolm Smith essentially sealing the deal and sending the 49ers and their
season home in ruins. Immediately after the game Andrews
found an amped up Sherman and asked him to describe the end zone play and that’s
when the rant hit the fan. Sherman
screaming at the camera claimed that he was the best corner in the game while
demoting Crabtree to mediocre status.
The boys in the production truck apparently seeing an FCC fine bubbling in Sherman's churning cauldron decided to cut the interview short.
And the rest was left to social media frenzy.
Here in San Francisco, home of the losing team, the
vitriol hasn't stopped. After all, one
of the local heroes was insulted; his reputation sullied; his character
besmirched and his ability demeaned. For
those still wearing their red and gold glasses this is an affair of honor that
can’t be let go. In the olden days
(like, over 200 years ago) there was a mechanism for handling these imbroglios;
pistols at 10 paces. I suppose that we
could offer Sherman and Crabtree a set of cap and ball pistols to have at it
but my feeling is that they've moved on.
Which is probably something everyone else should do.
In a subsequent CNN interview a quiet and articulate Sherman acknowledged that it
was “immature” and that he “probably shouldn't have done that.” “I regret doing
that,” he said. But that’s not good
enough, especially here in 49er – land. And it's certainly not good enough for the bigoted folks who feel violated when a black man speaks too loudly.
The fact is, Richard Sherman is not the monster that he’s
been made out to be. Do I defend his
tirade? Absolutely not. It was rude, it was bad sportsmanship and it
was unprofessional. Having said that, it
was an in the moment gut reaction immediately after the game ended. Sherman was obviously still running on high
octane adrenaline. Is that an excuse? In a radio interview this past week former 49er great Jerry
Rice was asked about the Sherman interview.
Said Rice, “After a ball game I needed that cooling down process…take a
little time and then once I had that little cooling down process the media
would come in; then you are thinking properly..we’re emotionally caught up in
the game.” I know that I've come out of
my office at times in a lather about some drama du jour. How much more so for someone in a profession
in which I recall one player describe as a place where “we would do things on
the field that we would be arrested for in real life?”
Over the past year there have been a number of articles
describing Sherman’s life. He grew up in
the Southern California community of Compton; a place which gained a notorious
reputation for a high crime rate, drugs and gang violence. Sherman managed to keep his head above it all. In high school he took leadership and
Advanced Placement courses and while some of his classmates were overdosing on
a drug of some sort, Sherman OD’d on extra credit. He graduated second in his class with a 4.2
GPA. On not being valedictorian Sherman
said, “That still hurts.” How many professional athletes bemoan missing
a 4.3 (the first in his class) by a tenth of a point? Sherman went on to Stanford where he got his
degree and then stayed for his final year of eligibility so that he could begin
his Master’s Degree. Well I guess that addresses
the idiot tag.
I went on social media and posted one of those articles and was taken to task for my trouble. “He’s
no role model” I was admonished. Well I
respectfully disagree. Hell, I even disrespectfully
disagree. Richard Sherman is an
outstanding role model. Not for what he
does on the field. I long ago gave up on
people as role models, just because they can hit a baseball, run a sub-four
minute mile or put a ball through a hoop.
Professional athletes are not sporting gentlemen on the field of
play. I've seen some of the most
respected baseball players feign getting hit by a pitch so that they can get a
free base. And as for football
players? They’ll get in a cheap shot
when they can and many take trash talking to a refined art, including
Sherman. For many players, particularly
defensive backs, constant chirping is a part of the game. I've never liked the demonstrations, the dances, the chest thumping and the histrionics but it's become as much a part of the game as the ball itself. You accept it or watch something else. And as for
that championship game between the Seahawks and the 49ers, it was a vast landfill
of trash. Said Buster Olney of ESPN on
Twitter, “Sherman accused of lacking sportsmanship: Anybody who watched the
game, w/talking on both sides, knows sportsmanship went out before kickoff.”
Richard Sherman is a role model because of his off the
field story. A role model spends his
teen summers building block towers with children suffering from cerebral
palsy. A role model tells his flunking
classmates, "Man, I'm going to love coming back from college and watching
you guys at the J.C.," and then when they do get into college because of
the cajoling. he helps them get through their college years. Said Sherman’s high school football coach in an article for SI, "He
was helping those guys all the way through (college)… calling them, texting
them—reminding them what they needed to do." A role
model helps out at the Special Olympics and at charity camps for kids with Down
Syndrome. A role model spends his
offseason preaching to inner city kids about the importance of education and
raises money for school supplies and says things like, "We shouldn't ever
leave a kid behind. But it's hard for them to take the SATs when the textbooks
they're using were made in 2000. How can they compete?” A role model is articulate and carries
himself with an air of intelligence as Sherman does OFF the field.
As Stephen A. Smith said on ESPN’s first take said, “there’s
a lot more positive than negative about this guy.” True that.
He’s a contributor for SI’s Monday Morning QB and his columns are
thoughtful and well written. Definitely
not jock speak. During last year’s Super
Bowl week he did a piece for Bleacher Report in which he interviewed fans on
Bourbon Street asking who was the best cover corner, Richard Sherman or (Tampa’s)
Darrelle Revis. At the end of each
interview, and many chose Revis while criticizing Sherman, he introduced
himself with some amusing self-deprecation, “Hi I’m Richard Sherman,” to the
shock of the surprised fans.
And so, for a 20 second sound bite, Richard Sherman is
defined and none of the rest, which is the most important, the meat and the potatoes,
matters. He didn't kill anybody like
former Patriots’ tight end Aaron Hernandez is alleged to have done; he hasn't
skipped out on a flock of children that he’s sired like Terrell Owens; he hasn't
been arrested for domestic violence like Chad Johnson and Dez Bryant and scores
of other athletes. He didn't get
arrested on a DUI or a weapons charge, activities that actually endanger lives
like one of the local heroes here in SF did.
My feeling,and he seems to hint at it in the CNN interview, is that
Sherman’s regret is that this mistake in judgment now represents who he
is.
It’s definitely the case here in 49er-ville. Richard Sherman is evil incarnate and the
energy expended in hate could light up the Golden Gate Bridge. That’s unfortunate because as Stephen Smith
said the pros out weight the cons. But
fans are fans and in the world of red and gold there is no area of gray. The fans don’t understand that football is,
for these men, a violent, dangerous, emotion filled business; a livelihood that’s
fueled on adrenaline and a need to gain every possible edge. That’s why wide receivers and defensive backs
spend sixty minutes jawing at each other.
But for the fans and viewers it’s
(or should be) just a game; a G A M E \ˈgām\: a physical or mental activity or
contest that has rules and that people do for pleasure.
Some years back I was given the opportunity to coach high
school cross country. It would have
required me to leave the office at 2:45.
With some trepidation I asked Mike, my boss, if that could be worked out. Without a second thought he said of course,
and he added, “because that’s who you are.
This office isn’t who you are.”
Richard Sherman is the decent man who does the good that he does out of the office; the things that we
should all strive to do outside of our own offices. And for that he is a role model.
"I'm an
awkward guy. People used to tell me all the time, you’re not from here. And
that's the way I felt, like somebody took me from somewhere else and dropped me
down into this place. I was strange because I went to class, did the work, read
the books and was still pretty good at sports. If you're like me, people think
you're weird. They pull you in different directions. But those people aren't
going where you're going. I know the jock stereotype—cool guy, walking around
with your friends, not caring about school, not caring about anything. I hate
that stereotype. I want to destroy it. I want to kill it.” ~
Richard Sherman on his high school days in Compton.
Sporting events are entertainment. They can cause fans to feel, quoting the intro of Wide World of Sports, the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat. Once the game is over, it's over. One of the best sportswriters in America, Terry Pluto, puts it in perspective by saying "Don't let the millionaires ruin your day". Obviously many fans don't agree.
ReplyDeleteI know a guy who went into a month-long funk when the Giants didn't make the playoffs in 2011 after winning the World Series the previous season. The day after the 49ers lost last season's Super Bowl, one of our library supervisors was in a foul mood, snapping at everyone in sight. I know a guy who frequently would be in a bad mood for a week when the 49ers lost a game. I wouldn't want to know the people who start idiotic riots in Europe after soccer matches.
Richard Sherman was rude and unprofessional. He apologized and I suspect he meant it. You mentioned the histrionics, the dances and celebrations over making an ordinary play. I find that much more offensive than what Sherman did.
So the Niners lost the conference championship. I was more concerned about the apparently serious injuries to Bowman and Iupati. Those injuries have been all but pushed aside in the uproar over Sherman's tirade. The priorities are backward.
As a fan, I never could understand the energy expended in post-game sorrow, tantrums, anger and assorted other angst. I think fans often take losses to heart more than their heroes. A successful (hell, anyone who is a success in his field), takes a setback as a learning experience and grows from that.
DeleteWhile my post may seems to be aimed at 49er fans it is really aimed at everyone who took such umbrage over Sherman's interview and that is apparently just about everyone in the nation except those who live north of the Oregon border.
During today's Pro Bowl game neither Al Michaels or Chris Collingsworth seemed particularly violated by Sherman. Collingsworth made one very telling comment when he pointed out the value of the 10 minute cooling off period before reporters are allowed to interview players. With on the field interviews right after the closing buzzer it was just a matter of time before an episode like this occurred. I've seen some very testy coaches during those halftime snippets with sideline reporters. Let them just report and let the participants do their jobs.
Finally if there is a plus to this it might be that more people take a deeper look at Richard Sherman and find out he isn't the heinous monster that everyone makes him out to be.
Sorry, not buying into his defense. Yeah, he does great stuff off the field, as do just about every other player in the league. He's the best cornerback in the league (this year), but that doesn't give him free reign to act like an asshole to his coworkers. Of course there's trash talking during the game, but when the clock hits zero it's time to shut that off and show some humility and grace. Yeah, it's just a game, but there's a reason we try to teach youth humility in sports. It carries over to real life.
ReplyDeleteThe "adrenaline" argument is no good either. If that were the case, we'd see 15-16 of these interviews every Sunday in the football season or every match across all other sports--somehow other players seem to show good sportsmanship right after the game during on-field interviews. Fine, preen all you want--you're truly the best in the league at your position (today). Don't go dragging your coworkers through the mud on national TV.
If this were his first time doing this, then we could maybe say it was just "the adrenaline." But no, he kept digging at Crabtree in different interviews--including on the podium after having showered, put on his bowtie and the "adrenaline" has disappeared.
Richard Sherman being Richard Sherman to Skip Bayless: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6x-O3kb1sI
Richard Sherman being Richard Sherman to Tom Brady: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/15/richard-sherman-tom-brady-twitter-seahawks_n_1965834.html
Sorry, if we're looking for a sports role model, we can find much better elsewhere.
I’m not sure that just about EVERY player does good things off the field. Most of those who do work for charities and give back to their communities don’t call attention to it (nor does Sherman. I had to research the story). I AM sure that there are a fair number that don’t behave off the field. It’s interesting that those stories don’t usually get the same sort of media and social media reaction that a regrettable 20 second sound bite did. But the fact that other players do good work is not pertinent to the argument. The discussion is about Richard Sherman.
DeleteThe adrenaline argument wasn’t something that I made up out of whole cloth. It came from Jerry Rice last week and was echoed by Collingsworth during the Pro Bowl broadcast. I can’t even begin to imagine the emotional swings that big time football players experience. It’s a highly charged arena in which the participants get themselves on emotional and chemical highs (especially at the end of the season when injuries and aches are common and pills, injections and IVs are dispensed like candy). So I’m not going to be presumptuous enough to question or try to understand the immediate post-game moods. I’ve seen enough very testy college coaches in the halftime interviews to not be surprised that someone finally went off. We also don’t know how many players angrily rebuff requests for a post-game interview. My feeling is that they need to keep the sideline reporters away from the participants.
I saw the Sherman conversation with Skip Bayless. First of all, on a personal note, anyone who takes Bayless to task scores big time points with me. But beyond that, this clip doesn’t include Bayless’ criticism of Sherman on First Take. It also doesn’t include Stephen A. Smith’s disagreement with Bayless and defense of Sherman.
Sherman was ungracious; I admit it and more importantly he’s admitted it. What have been overlooked in all of this are the regrets and apologies. He stated his regret in his CNN interview and he apologized on ESPNs SVP and Russillo show and again to Ed Werder of ESPN.
DeleteBut there is an irony that much of the reaction following the interview was much, much more offensive than the interview itself. A thug? Said David Shaw, “Thugs don’t volunteer to help out at Special Olympics when they’re in high school.” An idiot? Really? The racial epithets were voluminous; a particularly offensive example calling him a monkey with the wish that he be shot through the head. Bad sportsmanship doesn’t carry the death penalty. I can be pretty certain that a good bit of the local fan umbrage carries with it a wish that Sherman will blow out an ACL or take a hit to the spine in the Super Bowl. Some folks will voice it while others will keep it in that dark little recess - their heart of hearts.
And then there were the memes. You take offense over an immature act and then you trump it with a juvenile meme.
I know some fans that really need to get over this. Richard Sherman could cure the sick and raise the dead and the hatred will still be there. It’s unhealthy. But I don’t consider this be about football. Folks need to get beyond football.
Let me be very clear that I wasn’t holding up Sherman as a role model for being an athlete. I don’t hold ANY athletes up as role models for what they do on the field. What they do on the field is pointless and insignificant – it’s entertainment. I got beyond the athlete as a role model a long time ago. For me Richard Sherman’s off the field body of work far outweighs his on the field demeanor (a point which Stephen A. Smith put very well). I can separate out Sherman’s on the field behavior from his story and current charity and hold that up as a model for what we all should do, but often don’t, in giving back to society. The misfortune in all of this is that Sherman stuck himself with a horrible label. For his own sake, I hope that he reflects on this during the offseason and does tone down the on the field stuff. And if he does, then the question becomes will folks tone down their own hatred and rhetoric?
When did adrenaline turn into alcohol, in the sense that we can write it off like "ehh don't worry about his words or actions, he's drunk/on an adrenaline high"? I know what Jerry and other athletes have said about it, but adrenaline isn't a unique Sherman phenomenon. Again, how come we don't see this every week? And again, when the adrenaline died why did he continue his tirades? And if you buy his apologies, I've got some lovely beach front property I'd love to sell you. Like most "apologies" from high profiles, his was probably a PR move because he's more sorry about the repercussions than the act itself. In fact, his MMQB article on SI after the game was kind of pathetic. "Yeah what I said was kinda regrettable, but...but... the guys who threw things at Bowman! Look over there!". I honestly would have had a little more respect for him if he stood by what he said, instead of backpedaling.
ReplyDeleteIronic that you mention memes that were generated, when he made a meme out of Tom Brady after beating him in a regular season game. I mean cmon: he took to the time to get on his computer, grab a picture of him taunting Brady, and add a super hilarious caption to rub that dirt in a little harder.
Yeah Skip Bayless says dumb shit sometimes (read: 99% of the time) but Sherman took it to an unnecessary level.
I honestly almost feel a little sorry for him, because hes clearly got some insecurity issues. He went around doing a "man on the streets" bit last season, asking people who was a better cornerback, him or Revis. That's pretty tacky.
Funny right, a nobody like me feeling sorry for a future multi millionaire athlete that's at the top of his craft? Well what's going to happen if he gets injured or loses a step? Is he going to be able to handle that?
I honestly hope he figures "it" out like Vernon Davis. That's great he's the best, but he still has made asshole a major part of his image.
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DeleteThe "man on the street" bit was done for Bleacher Report. Is it stated somewhere that it was his idea or that he was asked to do it? I didn't see it as insecurity. It looked more like something lighthearted with a little self-deprecation thrown in.
DeleteSherman got himself through and out of Compton despite being a self admitted nerd and bucking the peer pressure. My feeling is that he can handle what life throws at him.
On apologies. Each stands on what I consider to be it's own merit (or lack of). Sometimes I "buy" them and I end up the fool. I suppose that might be because I've issued more apologies in my own lifetime than I should have set myself up for. And so I often give the benefit of the doubt and if I end up with egg on my face.... By the way, where exactly is that beach property and what are you asking?