For many here in the States, the best part of Sunday is
football. Not so for me. I’m partial to Sunday supper. Sunday supper has its origins in Britain and
Ireland where a hearty meal of roasted meat was served with a bounty of sides
after the Sunday church service. It’s
remained popular to some degree in the former colonies, including The United
States.
Cora and I like to enjoy a peaceful, relaxing Sunday with
a nice comforting meal in the late afternoon.
In winter it means the home warmed by something roasting in the oven or
the genial aroma of a stew bubbling in a pot; reading a book on the couch while
the dog is curled before the fireplace. As
the warm weather and longer daylight hours replace the dark winter, Sunday
supper is steak or salmon from the grill and a refreshing salad; maybe some fresh
pineapple. Sunday in our home doesn’t
include the Sunday news shows. In fact I
try to avoid the news altogether. I
crave Sunday serenity and repose free from shootings, wars, politics and
celebrity drama.
Spring is 10 short days off and daylight savings is upon
us again (yawn). The roads were empty as
I drove to the 8 AM church service. I
would say it looked much like a holiday but, do we have holidays anymore? Everything is open. Yeah I know I’ve complained about that before
so I’ll keep that soapbox in storage today.
Church is at St. Alban’s Episcopal in nearby Albany about
a 15 minute drive southwest on Highway 80.
That’s 15 minutes on a quiet Sunday morning. Add 20 or more for rush hour. Albany borders Berkeley and is known locally
for Solano Avenue, the downtown main drag defined by small, mostly independent
businesses. Its feel is a blend of American Dreams; the small
town fifties dream of Leave it to Beaver lore and the modern dream of eclectic contemporary chic; modern businesses sit in buildings that
were built decades ago. An old school toy shop, you know the ones that sell toys made of real wood sits near a running shop that displays high performance clothing, digital watches and GPS devices. There are only a
couple of chain operations on Solano; a Domino’s Pizza shop and a Super Cuts; a
pair of scabs in the diverse mixture of small businesses. Solano Avenue is the perfect place for dinner
and a movie. The Albany Theatre, housed
in a building dating from the 1920,s retains the building’s original art deco
charm and only two screens. It’s the
type of theatre that I recall from my childhood; buildings that nowadays are
often empty and decaying from disuse and loneliness or have been converted to a
church of some sort with the marquee that once announced classic films now glowering
that you will be going to hell if you don’t repent.
What would you like for dinner before the show? Solano Avenues menu is and eclectic blend;
Italian, French, American, California, fish and seafood, Korean, Vietnamese,
Thai, Chinese, Mexican, Japanese and more than a few that offer curries. A few months back Cora and my son and I went
to a little place called The Everest Café for some Nepalese food. I’ll be going back soon for their goat
curry.
Solano Avenue is what our little town of Hercules covets
in a bad way. While Albany seems to be
vibrant and thriving Hercules is just hanging on by its fingernails; the city coffers
emptied by a combination of the recession and years of bad decisions that ranged from greedy to imbecilic to
downright criminal. And so while Albany
continues to have festivals and street fairs and vibrant life Hercules can't fill the poop bag dispensers with poop bags and is threatening the
citizenry with a second straight year of tax increases. Herculeans look at Solano Avenue and say, “that’s
what we need,” as if it can just be dropped into a few blocks of Hercules. They don’t realize that a Solano Avenue was nurtured
and developed over many years. Like a good
whiskey it discovers its character over time.
Hercules doesn’t have the patience for a Solano Avenue and so the folks
in charge at any given time constantly woo big boxes. Years ago they courted Wal-Mart only to tell
the giant to go away. Now they’re making
overtures to Wal-Mart again. Herculeans
want small town charm but they also want instant money in the civic piggy bank
and in the end hit the replay button on past mistakes and get neither.
Dinner and a movie in Albany might happen next weekend. The Albany Theatre is showing Emperor, the movie in which Tommy Lee
Jones portrays Douglas MacArthur. My
wife has decreed that we’ll be seeing it at the theatre and not wait for
DVD. Like many Filipinos, mostly of
older generations, she sees MacArthur as something of a hero and was confused
by my opinion of the general. At first
she may have thought I was talking about a different MacArthur; a fellow with
the first name Thatasshole. I had to
explain that Dugout Doug, as he was known by many of his soldiers, had a career
in which he managed to; gas WWI veterans who were protesting for monies owed
them by the US Government; somehow get a Medal of Honor not only for not
displaying gallantry in combat but for losing The Philippines to the Japanese, later make the critical and deadly error of staying several steps
behind the chain of events leading to the Korean War. All of that and he was insubordinate to not
one but three, count ‘em, three Presidents while acting more like, well, an emperor
and less like an American general.
It’s usually a sparse crowd at 8 AM service; somewhere between
15 and 20, mostly older folk and usually the same cast. This morning daylight savings took its toll
and folks either didn't feel like rolling out of bed or simply forgot to set
their clocks. There were maybe 10 of us
this morning. The elderly lady that always sits two rows in front of me was in
attendance. She always sports a sweat
suit of some sort, what looks like a fishing hat and a positive, cheery
attitude. She speaks with an accent that
hints of British and this morning she referred to me as monsieur. I’ve never thought of myself as a monsieur –
kind of liked it. I think she's from over the border in Berkeley because she reminds me of the aging activists from the sixties. The presiding priest,
Julie, praised the few “early risers” as the young Korean seminarian off to
the side watched through sleepy eyes and tried unsuccessfully to stifle his
yawns. During the readings Julie slipped
a coffee cup to her lips. The whole
service was a little discombobulated this morning with readings and movements a
few too many beats behind cue.
This Sunday in general is a bit discombobulated. We’re both sleepy and with the lost hour it
seems that the day is slipping by too quickly.
It seems to be confused, not knowing whether it wants to be a winter
Sunday or a spring Sunday Its daylight
savings time and we have the World Baseball Classic on TV and we’d planned on bathing the dog in the warm sun on the front
lawn this afternoon but there’s still too much of a chill in the air that might
invite a book and a fire in the fireplace.
I suppose that later today Cora and I might take a nap in the upstairs
room that gets warmed by the afternoon sun while Rainey finds a patch of
sunlight to loll in. Sundays sadly never
seem to last long enough. Sadder still,
every week Sunday degenerates into Monday.
Ah yes, MacArthur, hero of the Pacific! You suggested I read Turkel's book The Good War. In it, a soldier basically spits on the ground speaking of MacA. He said after seeing with his own eyes how regal the man was, he never bought a War Bond again. He did not want to support MacA's palaces and egomaniacal life-style. But, considered in the context of how the Filipinos were treated but the Japanese, I can understand a good deal of hero worship towards him.
ReplyDeleteI've never met a Filipino who doesn't revere MacArthur. They do so only because he kept his promise to return to the Philippines. All the other things he did, which you listed, don't matter at all to them. Americans who are knowledgeable about his history usually feel otherwise, as shown by the Dugout Doug moniker.
ReplyDeleteOne great thing about urban areas in the U.S. is that usually they have at least one suburb that has that small town from the 1950s look. Those towns should never go the way of the Edsel. Many cities also have neighborhoods with that small town feeling, which I believe you wrote about in an earlier post. May they always exist.
Sunday suppers only work if you're married, have a live-in partner, or have guests over for that meal. Living alone has many good points. One of the not so good points is that living and eating alone tends to eradicate the wonderfulness of the Sunday supper and the hours leading up to it. Instead, it's just another meal. I enjoy cooking very much. Even with that, there is no replacing that feeling that comes from having other folks in the home leading up to the Sunday supper.